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I grapple with the term because what’s the difference between a fetish and a preference?

I once went out with a guy I met on Nerve, then didn’t hear from him again.

I e-mailed and he wrote back, “I had fun making out with you—if you’re ever up for some more fun, let me know.” So then I knew that’s all he really wanted. So what’s the difference between hooking up with a fetishist and just hooking up with someone casually?

He wasn’t like, “Hi, I’m a fetishist,” he just wants to have sex with random plus-size women. Is someone who likes plus-size girls a fetishist just because his preference isn’t mainstream?

I’ve had really in-shape guys, bodybuilders even, contact me.

I think they like the juxtaposition of hard and soft.

Some of them were very heavy, but they were married and successful in relationships. I started out on Jdate but worried that maybe people didn’t fully see my body type, even though I never lied or showed a picture that wasn’t me.

Some jerk once IMed and asked, “Are there really guys out there who are attracted to you?

This piece was bought by a national women’s magazine, then killed, and I think now is the time to post it. I’m also a publicist, an extrovert, a bargain-shopper extraordinaire and an unbelievably good friend.

I’ve been seeing someone now who’s given me a newfound perspective.

He definitely cares about me and likes spending time with me, but if he could stare at my ass all day long, he would.

*** I was on a date recently and a woman sat down at the next table, catty-corner to me. But what’s most visible about me, what defines me before I even open my mouth, is my size.

I was embarrassed and annoyed, already contemplating how I was going to get out at the end. I’ve dieted my whole life and can’t remember a time when I wasn’t concerned about my weight.