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The very fact that God created our desires is proof that ditching them is not His plan.This idea fosters a stoic, legalistic mindset that prevents Christians from enjoying their season of singleness.Christian relationships are messy, complicated and sometimes they break down.I fight with my boyfriend, sometimes he’s annoying, sometimes I’m frustrating or just not loving him properly.They may be amazing but in my experience, they didn’t pray for me, didn’t try and stick to the values I have, didn’t challenge me, weren’t be able to build me up in faith and not having that did not make the fact that they were cute worth the sacrifice.I’ve been with my boyfriend 6 months now, not massively long but it is my first Christian relationship and the difference that makes is phenomenal.While being married means you’re free to have sex, it doesn’t exempt you from dealing with sexual temptations such as: extramarital flirting, marital sex conflict and past sexual memories.
Some days, love will be a choice, but that proves that it’s real.
If you trust in Him and listen to what he says about relationships, He will work for your good.
Dating is complicated, tricky, testing and can be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. Doing it right is flipping hard and requires some serious dedication.
Holiness is allowing the Spirit to govern natural desires and sin is when natural desires are allowed to run the show.
Desire is good, but without discipline it can lead you down a path full of unnecessary hurts.