Dating an indian girl for white men
Nicholas Chevaillier, my friend Aarya’s French-American husband, has been asked more than once in India where and how he “picked up” the woman he was with.
Her experiences in those two years in Mumbai before the couple moved to Los Angeles forever clouded the way Aarya thought of the city in which she had grown up.“Being with my own husband would make me uncomfortable because men would pass lewd comments with even more alacrity than when I was alone,” said Aarya.
Then there is patriarchy: Women who venture out of the nest to seek a mate must lack decency.
And there’s the drive towards conformity: The ugly head that raises itself at the sight of anything that dares to deviate from the norm.
I wondered whether she would have felt as much concern over my being so far away from my mother had I married an Indian.
Or whether a policeman from a Mumbai police station would have muttered under his breath when Aarya went for a no-objection certificate required for her American visa: “What else would you expect from the daughter of divorced parents?
Chris, her American boyfriend, had accompanied her.
One day when walking on a street in Pune, Neha’s hometown, a biker slowed down near the couple and almost hit her. She said she sensed a mix of repressed fury and lust in the man’s tone, when he hissed back: “I will f*** you.”To many Indians, the idea of a mixed-race couple is alien, repulsive even.
By extension, the Indian women they are with must be promiscuous.
You may have to meet a lot of women to find the right one for you, but she'll be worth the wait.
Join local groups that cater to the Indian community.
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