Good usernames for dating sites for women
In many other ways he is also fantastic: he owns several properties, has several degrees in engineering, has managed to find a job where he has ample time for extracurricular activities, maintains a close network of friends, maintains a humble self-perspective, and seems thrilled to be with me: he helps me with things that are difficult (both family strife and car repairs!
), enjoys meeting my friends and family; he’s introduced me to his friends and some of his family (with whom he has a very complicated relationship).
But…his shadow self emerges, and I recognize I am still getting to know him.
He has acknowledged that he has an ambivalent-anxious attachment style (with the tendency to retreat when he is feeling emotionally challenged, but still a deep need to connect), which he is making sense of in therapy and independently.
We seem to share a vision of what our futures look like.
He tells me he thinks we complement each other well and that we have a long future ahead of us.
It sounds to me like he’s a good man, who is into you and is working through his issues. I can’t help but think that that almost anything can be spinned into a red flag and one would only tolerate red flags (Maybe it’s an orange flag in this case) if they felt they couldn’t do much better than they are doing now.
Speaking of red/orange/yellow flags, what imperfections can exist in a person without them being any sort traffic light coloured flags?
If your username is offensive, misspelled or has sexual connotations, it could be keeping the right person from reaching out to you. I know there are other interesting men out there (they are still pursuing me!), but I am still more interested in seeing what this man has to show. The good: You have the awareness and self-esteem to realize your boyfriend is not the last man on Earth. You need more safety and intimacy, and when you don’t get it, you feel triggered. The “chic” is a play on the word “chick,” which makes it even catchier. Gamer Chic: If you love gaming, show it with a name like this.